In fact, none of our family and friends know or suspect anything about “this thing of ours”. On all other accounts, we’re very “normal” people. This lifestyle has worked very well for us. I have a recent blog post about this type of thing called “ Breaking His Bad Habits“. And even if he were to forget a month or two down the road, I find that I don’t get annoyed because in my position of power, I know exactly what I’m going to do to address it and eliminate it. Rule was broken, it was addressed (real consequence/real spanking), and a new and improved habit was formed, thus eliminating this tension point from here on out. No nagging, no yelling, no annoyance, no tension between the two of you. Well, I assure you…if he got a REAL spanking every time he left the seat up, his butt would make the connection to his brain pretty quickly and he’d start remembering to put the seat back down after he is done. And so you continue nagging (aka bitching) and he continues to get annoyed, roll his eyes, and likely even laugh about it with his friends. Why? Because there is no consequence for him in that situation. You nag him about it, and even though he is probably not trying to intentionally piss you off by leaving it up, he just doesn’t think about it when he’s going to the bathroom. For example, has your husband ever done something repeatedly that gets on your last freaking nerve? I think we’ve all heard the infamous “leaves the toilet seat up” complaint. At the same time, it significantly reduces the amount of tension between us. We are just a married couple who have evolved into this domestic spanking agreement and over the years have realized that it is a very effective way to enforce rules and address transgressions around our home. There is no corner time, or belittling or degrading him. Side note…after a good spanking…he is a model citizen around here – very eager to please, in a great mood and very productive!Ĭontrary to what some might think, we DO love each other very much AND respect each other. He has told me that he feels no resentment for the spanking as it was earned and that he feels a sense of calm and balance afterwards. Because let me tell you…it is oftentimes very harsh.Įven though the spankings I give him are very real and very painful (even to the point of tears), he has told me on many occasions that he appreciates me holding him accountable in this way. I commend him on being brave and tough enough to take what I dish out. And the swats are coming hard and one right after another. There are no warm up swats, no rubbing his butt or long pauses between swats during the spanking. “Consensual” for us, means that my husband has asked to be held accountable for his actions and misdeeds and has consented to receiving actual punishment spankings accordingly. These are consensual but very real domestic discipline spankings. The stories are true as are the spankings. This should provide a good perspective from both a top (spanker) and bottom (spankee). Some blogs are written by me and some are written by my husband. This will cover some of the topics above but also provide accounts of actual spankings that my husband has received from me. The blog section will be added to most often. Tips such as traveling with spanking implements, tricks to increase the effectiveness (pain level) of an implement, punishment spanking rules and more! However, there are many tips included herein pertaining to spanking that should benefit any spanker (sorry spankees!). We are an actual couple that practices consensual domestic discipline from a Female to male perspective (F/m, Fm). Welcome to our website about domestic discipline and hybrid FLR.
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